GET MARRIED. GET UNIFIED.
Learn how to get on the same page before your wedding.
Every wedding needs a unified vision
Congratulations! Getting married is a big step in your relationship, and deserves to be celebrated with your closest friends and family. For many couples, planning a wedding is the first time they have to really work together as a team. Even the most committed, amicable couple can find the juggling of budgets, family expectations and logistics overwhelming as the big day draws near.
Before deciding on the location and menu of your wedding, it's healthy to sit down with your partner and ask each other these questions:
- Why do you and your partner want a wedding? What does it mean to you?
- What kind of social setting do you or your partner enjoy? What social setting makes you or your partner anxious?
- How do you and your partner want the wedding to feel? For yourselves? For your family? For your friends?
relationship coaching before THE wedding
At this important time in your life, it helps to make sure you and your partner on the same page before your big day. Making a unified decision about your wedding before you start booking venues and hiring caterers can reduce the amount of stress on your relationship as the special day draws near.
UDM is an alternative to traditional relationship coaching, by teaching couples how to apply strategic thinking in their relationships. UDM creates a unique space for you and your partner to face important challenges in your life. By following these steps, you will learn planning and communication techniques that will change the way you face big decisions together.
A sample of "UNIFIED":
What's in the pdf?
UNIFIED is the first chapter of a book based on 2 years of research behind the Unified Decision Making methodology.
Through the practice of UDM, we have uncovered 3 unconscious biases that get in the way of decision making in our relationships. This guidebook suggests tried and true exercises from the UDM methodology to help you overcome them with your partner.
Meet Your Guide
Jasmin Cheng is a Canadian strategic facilitator based in Wellington, New Zealand. For over 10 years, she has helped businesses, start-ups and not-for-profits define and reach their goals. She has been working on the unified decision making framework since 2014 as a personal project. In 2016, she launched UDM as a way to apply her professional skills to help couples make better decisions based on equality, trust and understanding. Learn more.