What is a unified decision?

A unified decision is when two people disengage from the tug of war, and start walking down the same path. They are based on these values:

  • Recognize that you and your partner share the same goals and constraints
  • Be honest about what you and your partner really want, without making assumptions
  • Equal commitment towards achieving the best outcome for the relationship
 

how does it work?

UDM teaches couples how to apply strategic model thinking in relationships through personal coaching. UDM creates a unique space for you and your partner to face important challenges in your life. By following each of the following steps, you will learn planning and communication techniques that will change the way you face big decisions together.

Values & Constraints Lay out and prioritize what's really important to you and your partner, and the challenges that you both face.

Values & Constraints
Lay out and prioritize what's really important to you and your partner, and the challenges that you both face.

Possible Outcomes Brainstorm all the different paths you and your partners can take, exploring the benefits and weaknesses of each in detail.

Possible Outcomes
Brainstorm all the different paths you and your partners can take, exploring the benefits and weaknesses of each in detail.

Evaluate & Action Evaluate these paths based on your values and constraints, and create a realistic vision of how you and your partner will achieve your goals.

Evaluate & Action
Evaluate these paths based on your values and constraints, and create a realistic vision of how you and your partner will achieve your goals.

 

What to expect

You will learn how to apply UDM in your relationship through a series of live online workshops. Each workshop follows the framework: Values & Constraints, Possible Outcomes, Evaluate & Action Plan, although the order and contents of each workshop differs depending on your specific needs. 

  • Every workshop is tailored to you and your partner

  • Supportive guide throughout the process

  • Weekly homework assignments

  • Safe space for emotions

  • 100% Confidentiality
 
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Meet Your Guide

Jasmin Cheng is a Canadian strategic facilitator based in Wellington, New Zealand. For over 10 years, she has helped businesses, start-ups and not-for-profits define and reach their goals. She has been working on the unified decision making framework since 2014 as a personal project. In 2016, she launched UDM as a way to apply her professional skills to help people make decisions based on equality, trust and understanding.

 

request a FREE intro Session

Meet with Jasmin for 30 minutes to see if UDM is a good fit for your relationship. It is a chance to discuss the decision you and your partner would like to make, and to ask any questions you may have.

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Love does not consist of gazing at each other, but in looking outward in the same direction.
— Antoine de Saint-Expuréry